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07 May 2012

Moving Forward

One of the most difficult feeling I know is when you know you are moving out.

Thinking back. You were so excited to bring all your stuff and post them in your apartment. Settled there for few years. Then, the time came that you need to pack all things and move out. You don't jump around and rejoice. There must be something that will slightly pull you back- the neighbors and friends, the convenience, the hassle of packing things, the uncertainties, your dog won't like the new place and many more.


It's difficult to answer the usual questions, "where will you go?" or "what are your plans?" The people who became dear to you suddenly will take every opportunity to spend time with you. They're gonna drop other things just to grab your precious time. Here, you can only be overwhelmed. I admire those kind of friends. They will make you feel so special, it feels like you are the best person in the world. I figured out, it's not easy to tell someone you love you're gonna leave. If you are not convinced, try it with your best friend.

In any relationship, it's inevitable. Each one of has will have this moment of flight. We can't control life circumstances but we can choose to let special people remain living in our heart, till eternity.




13 April 2012

Aim Small Victories

The bigger the dream, the longer it takes to have it. We must go through the process.

Small goals are easier to achieve and it makes us happy.

There's nothing wrong with big dreams. It's just that, in order to achieve it, we must undergo the preparation. Sadly, some are not willing to take the risks entailed.

On another perspective, small victories are priceless. We can celebrate small victories. I figured out, if we don't achieve small things, frustration levels up. Disappointment poisons our drive to reach the greater victory. Worst, it damages our character.


Set small goals like:

- finish reading a book by 30 days.
- run a mile every week.
- learn a sport in 2 months.
- take short courses in public speaking.
- learn a musical instrument in 3 months.

Plan a small and a big goal. Why? While we achieve the small goal, we get fired up to reach the bigger goal. If we are filled with the joy of small victories, frustration can't find a hole to creep in.